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That doesn’t excuse the fetishism at all, but it also doesn’t mean that love can’t be real.
I think a lot of Asian men believe they’re battling yellow fever, but wind up focusing on their own issues around feeling entitled to women.
Noah: you call out racism against Asian men, Nikki, yet some don’t do you the same courtesy of backing you up.
And I think it’s really terrible that you have to feel the need to publicly justify your interracial relationship to anyone, let alone to men who are projecting their own insecurities onto you.
I grew up around a lot of Asian people — East, Southeast, South — and I can say that it was often a few East Asian guys who made me feel the most uncomfortable and pushed an intense kind of misogyny on the girls around us.It’s not like there were any Asian people in my life to feel a twinge of discomfort over the fact that my relationship plays into that white guy/Asian girl trope at all, even though I know that’s not what it really is.Of course I don’t like thinking about my marriage, the central relationship of my life, as a stereotype — but at the same time, I’m not oblivious to how the world works.I think about what my relationship is, and sometimes I also think about how it may look. Will they think I’m trying to attain whiteness and white children?[Nothing could be further from the truth; I actually wonder/worry a lot about my kids over-identifying with their non-Asian heritage, because it would be They’re already getting plenty of not-at-all-subtle societal messages about whose culture matters most.] Will they just dismiss me as a banana?